Here it is the last few days before Christmas and as usual I am running a day late and a dollar short. I was in New York last week, but that story will have to be saved for later. I would like to tell you that I am alright and did survive, in spite of several mishaps.
As I have said before on a number of occasions, I do believe there is a God. To prove my point, as I sat down and tried to force my New York injured hands and fingers to write this column, the following came to me in an e-mail.
I could not have said it better. Please notice that I do not take credit for it since I didn’t write it and the author is apparently unknown.
But you can see why I wanted you to read it’ Have a Merry Christmas.
This is the time of year when we think back to the very first Christmas, when the Three Wise Men’ Gaspar, Balthazar, and Herb’ went to see the baby Jesus and, according to the Book of Matthew, ‘ presented unto Him gifts; gold, frankincense, and myrrh.’
These are simple words, but if we analyze them carefully, we discover an important, yet often overlooked, theological fact: There is no mention of wrapping paper.
If there had been wrapping paper, Matthew would have said so: ‘ And lo, the gifts were inside 600 square cubits of paper. And the paper was festooned with pictures of Frosty the Snowman. And Joseph was going to throweth it away, but Mary saideth unto him, she saideth, ‘ Holdeth it! That is nice paper! Saveth it for next year!’ And Joseph did rolleth his eyeballs. And the baby Jesus was more interested in the paper than the frankincense.’
But these words do not appear in the Bible, which means that the very first Christmas gifts were NOT wrapped. This is because the people giving those gifts had two important characteristics:
1. They were wise.
2. They were men.
Men are not big gift wrappers. Men do not understand the point of putting paper on a gift just so someone else can tear it off. This is not just my opinion; this is a scientific fact based on a statistical survey of two guys I know. One is Rob, who said the only time he ever wraps a gift is ‘ if it’s such a poor gift that I don’t want to be there when the person opens it.’ The other is Gene, who told me he does wrap gifts, but as a matter of principle never takes more than 15 seconds per gift. ‘ No one ever has to wonder which presents Daddy wrapped at Christmas,’ Gene said. ‘ They are the ones that look like enormous spitballs.’
I also wrap gifts, but because of some defect in my motor skills, I can never completely wrap them. I can take a gift the size of a deck of cards and put it in the exact center of a piece of wrapping paper the size of a regulation volleyball court, but when I am done folding and taping, you can still see part of the gift peeking out. (Sometimes I camouflage it with a marking pen.) If I had been an ancient Egyptian in
the field of Mummy Preservation, the lower half of the Pharaoh’s body would be covered only by Scotch tape.
On the other hand, if you give my wife a 12-inch square of wrapping paper, she can wrap a C-130 cargo plane. My wife, like many women, actually likes wrapping things. If she gives you a gift that requires
batteries, she wraps the batteries separately, which to me is very close to being a symptom of mental illness. If it were possible, my wife would wrap each individual volt.
My point is that gift-wrapping is one of those skills’ like having babies’ that come more naturally to women than to men. That is why today I am presenting these Gift-wrapping Tips for Men:
* Whenever possible, buy gifts that are already wrapped. If, when the recipient opens the gift, neither one of you recognizes it, you can claim that it’s myrrh.
* The editors of Woman’s Day magazine recently ran an item on how to make your own wrapping paper by printing a design on it with an apple sliced in half horizontally and dipped in a mixture of food coloring and liquid starch. They must be smoking crack.
* If you’ re giving a hard-to-wrap gift, skip the wrapping paper! Just put it inside a bag and stick one of those little adhesive bows on it. This creates a festive visual effect that is sure to delight the lucky recipient on Christmas morning:
Your wife: Why is there a Hefty trash bag under the tree’
You: It’s a gift! See’ It has a bow!
Your wife (peering into the trash bag): It’s a leaf blower.
You: Gas-powered! Five horsepower!
Your wife: I want a divorce.
You: I also got you some myrrh.
In conclusion, remember that the important thing is not what you give or how you wrap it. The important thing, during this very special time of year, is that you save the receipt.